Fix ICE when compiling nightly std/rustc on beta compiler
Fix#89775#89479 renames a lot of diagnostic items, but it happens that the beta compiler assumes that there must be DefId with `rustc_diagnostic_item = "send_trait"`, causing an ICE when compiling stage 0 std or stage 1 compiler. So gate it with `cfg(bootstrap)`.
The unwrap is also removed, so that existence of the diagnostic item is not required. I ripgreped the code base and this seems the only place where `unwrap` is called on the return value of `get_diagnostic_item`.
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