Stabilize poison API of Once, rename poisoned()
This stabilizes:
* `OnceState`
* `OnceState::is_poisoned()` (previously named `poisoned()`)
* `Once::call_once_force()`
`poisoned()` was renamed because the new name is more clear as a few
people agreed and nobody objected.
Closes#33577
Notes:
* I'm not entirely sure it's supposed to be 1.51, LMK if I did it wrong
* I failed to run tests locally, so we will have to leave it to bors or someone else can try
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