use BOOL for TCP_NODELAY setsockopt value on Windows
This issue was found by the Wine project and mitigated there [^1].
Windows' setsockopt expects a BOOL (a typedef for int) for TCP_NODELAY
[^2]. Windows itself is forgiving and will accept any positive optlen and
interpret the first byte of *optval as the value, so this bug does not
affect Windows itself, but does affect systems implementing Windows'
interface more strictly, such as Wine. Wine was previously passing this
through to the host's setsockopt, where, e.g., Linux requires that
optlen be correct for the chosen option, and TCP_NODELAY expects an int.
[^1]: d6ea38f32d
[^2]: https://docs.microsoft.com/en-us/windows/win32/api/winsock/nf-winsock-setsockopt
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